Take a deep breath, and let your mind soar

to sherwin:

aww kiddo.. i saw ur post. =( *pat pat* everyone goes through periods of time like that in life where we all grapple with heinous insecurity and the feeling of being frighteningly alone - like being around so many people but unable to truly connect with them. but it's times like these that let us think about situations and the way things are, and even contemplate the role we play in our relationships with other people, how much effort u need to put in it, and so on. perhaps i don't know the context you wrote that post in. but if things around you are changing, should you change to keep up? it's a challenge you have to pose yourself to see if you can manage to while staying true to yourself.. it's moral integrity sher. i know i've said it before but the person you are is honestly one of the most unique characters i've ever known, and that being said, i do know alot of people who are cut out of the same mould - and it gets tiring being around people you can categorize mentally. so......... why change the way you are? you've always been sarcastic, highly apathetic with a healthy sense of sadism and cynicism.

and guess what.. i like it :)

when you're in a relationship, it's natural to be so swept away that your world becomes the other person. and especially for girls, it's nice to think that there's a guy there who's loving you and supporting you, and basically being your pillar.. and they tend to forget that the other pillars that have been there for so long are beginning to feel neglected at the shift of weight. but you ought to know that no matter what happens, even if they're distracted or completely caught up, they treasure the friendship every bit as much as you do (trust me, girls are sentimental. everything means something to them). just be patient with them because there will come a time when the gloss of a new relationship has faded and they settle back into a balance between friends and other half.

or you could always find yourself another bunkmate of han + erics to hook up with. :P

jk sherwin dear.

i just wanted to let u know that if u ever do need anyone to rant to, i will be available to listen to ur rants.. to no end -_-'' hopefully you were smart enough to highlight all this and read it.. or i gotta say.. the light upstairs looks like it's dimming.

BOO! I'M BORED

Friday, March 02, 2007 at 5:17 PM

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