this blog entry is dedicated to someone whom i care very much about :p and i would like u to.. reflect on this and.. maybe, stop looking and try to let go.

the burning question on my mind right now..
today at lunchtime, we were just sitting at the tables near the year 7 area like we usually do. and someone (i won't say who, but you can pretty much guess) was talking about guys lol. :p that certain someone happens to want a boyfriend very very much -.- but like, in her words.. 'someone she can perve on' ..

.. then it kinda struck me that i think the moment you really stop looking for it is when it finds you. and it definitely applies to everyone i think. sometimes you just gotta chill for abit and enjoy life instead of chasing a fantasy :p cos the perfect person doesn't exist :p and neither does the perfect relationship. cos it's life. and realistically, nothing is perfect or we would never appreciate the finer things in life because we have nothing to compare it to. and trust me, perfect relationships aren't always perfect on the inside.. people WORK to make it happen.

and seriously speaking about fantasies, are we all really searching for an ideal someone? does that mean that when we first meet people, we search for qualities of the perfect person in them?... or say.. you were madly in love with someone and you broke up with them.. and would you be looking for people who reminded you of them? and even if you found someone who was sufficiently similar, no two people are the same..would you ever be truly happy? would you be willing to settle for second best..? scenario : a goes out with b. a breaks up with b. b looks for someone like a, and finds c. b and c go out, b breaks up with c and c is looking for someone like b. =o

yay i know my alphabet :p

and another question that came up at lunch today. to all the girls out there, would you go out with a friend's ex? and when i say good friend, i mean.. like.. a really.. good friend. and she was still hurting.

:p you tell me.